Monday, June 29, 2026

A Topsy Turvy Kinda Day

 As we still are waiting to enter our apartment in Ganei (24 months late), the question of what to do with the kids next year is on our minds. 


When the day started, the plan was:


Daniel: Work

Shifra: Home with Rinat

Eitan: 2nd grade in Chashmo

Hadar: Potentially 1st grade in Chashmo, skipping Gan Chova (mostly because the gan in Ganei isn't good apparently and mostly 4 year olds)

Meital: Gan Iriya in Chashmonaim

Rinat: Home with Shifra



As the day ends, the plan is:


Daniel: Work

Shifra: Teaching at Ariel

Eitan: Second great in Shivtei

Hadar: Gan Chova at Lehava

Meital: our third kid at Gan Tchelet

Rinat: A Mishpachton in Chashmo


Small things that led to this:

Understood that skipping kindergarten isn't recommended after Shifra meeting with principal

A teacher at Ariel not working out, deciding today

Most importantly, a Mishpachton not planning to open reached back out telling Shifra she changed her mind and were we still interested. 

Saturday, June 27, 2026

Eye Vee

 



So on Wednesday afternoon we got a call from Meital's ganenet that she threw up. We picked her up, she threw up twice in the car just on the way home from Maon. She threw up about 20 times in 3 hours. I took her to Terem where she got an IV and we spent a few hours there. The next day she stayed home and wasn't herself, and in the evening both Rinat and Eitan started throwing up. The next day we decided to take Meital to Shaarei Tzedek (she was super weak and not very functional) and Eitan to Terem. Shaarei Tzedek on a friday was actually fun with all the volunteers bringing stickers, marshmallows, playing music, etc. But didn't feel necessary because when she had a popsicle she ended up being fine and getting energy back. 

Meital has now had 4 IVs/blood tests in 2 weeks including the ones pre and for her tonsil/adnoid surgery. She is a Gibora. 

Wednesday, June 24, 2026

Hopes for 30s (Can't believe my number starts with a 3)

 First of all, bday was nice. We went to Reut pool, I did 30 laps for 30, had a delicious hamburger, and was at Jonah and Eliya's wedding and did the 7th Bracha under the Chuppah for the first time. 

In the car, Shifra asked me what my goals for my 30s are. 

In no order, here is what I said:

  • Enjoy and truly be present with the kids in these young years. Realized that my youngest will be 11 at the end, and Eitan will be 17 (holy heck)
  • Move into our new home and build/find a new community
  • Continued success at work, being ahead of the AI curve. Continued financial success and get better at investing. 
  • Continue to be young at heart with Shifra in our relationship
  • Finding more time to learn and be connected with Hashem
  • Continue to stay healthy, get more into shape
  • Win my first (!?) championship


Sunday, June 21, 2026

brutal playoffs week

 


A crazy fact about me is I have never actually won a championship in the many sports I play. This year seemed to be our year. We went into the Kiddush Club League playoffs as the 1 seed. We had a huge scare in the first round against the 8 seed but survived. And we went into the semis ready to survive again, without our best roster present and very much a next man up mindset. 


The game started fine, we scored, they scored, was a very close game. Coming out of halftime we got a safety and the ball, poised to take a 2 possession lead. But we couldn't do it. Then some more back and forth, huge plays, we had the ball with a couple minute left and a 3 point lead. We were a first down away from icing it, but couldn't do it (they made some unbelievable plays), which led to them getting the ball back on the final drive with 1:22. They started driving, I made a touchdown saving play deep on a first down to knock the ball down, but there we were. 3rd down from the 10, man defense. I saw the ball was going to someone else and I pulled the flag at the 2 with ten seconds left. THey were in a rush to get set, and someone on our team felt we weren't set (Moro) so he called timeout. This gave them time to set a play etc. They ran a play to my guy who crossed over, I got my hand on it but he still caught it on a diving catch to walk off. I stood there stunned and in disbelief. I have now watched the play way too many times. 


Football season was fun. I like to be commissioner, I like to lead Modiin. Playing time issues with friends became an issue, but navigated that to the best of my ability. We won some big games, lost the one that mattered, and that sucks. 


If that wasn't bad enough, I had two more softball games that week in the playoffs, and we lost both. Actually was my best two games in a couple years, getting a bunch of hits against fast pitchers and catches in the field. 


3 playoff losses in one week, in two different sports. Is that a record?


Thursday, May 14, 2026

Back to America

 Well! After visiting Israel for 4 days twice this month, its time to get home to hopefully normal routine. This trip was really good, an I'm really happy with how it worked out. 

I watched the Pistons lose in the lounge and ate some good food to prep for this trip. There were kids there and i sent a pic to Shifra joking about how parents can let kids into the lounge. 

Flight was fine, I landed and Aliza picked me up. Was out much quicker by myself, and met Rachel B and Noam E at the luggage. Aliza took me to Dunkin Donuts, which I promptly ate two of. I then went with Bracha and Adina to bike around the duck pond which was a really fun thing. Then we went to the coolest place - Activate. It is competition/working together with all kinds of things. I can't really explain it so well but it was a great activity I'd love to do again. I then had the most wonderful geshmak shnitzel sandwich at chickies I am still thinking about. From there I went to go chill with Tifarah a little bit, and then took Aliza's car to go to Ayelet's Bat Mitzvah. That was a fun thing I realized the day before, and it was really nice to hang out with the family over there. Bat Mitzvah was fun, I blew our Coke and Pepsi game, but had a great time. I didn't eat anything since I was still too stuffed from the slurpee. Any bat mitzvah that ends in Tatty My King is a good one. From there I drove back to Clifton, listening to the Tiger game and drinking a slurpee. 

My alarm rang early the next morning, and I drove in with David into the city for a social security appointment (leftover from last week). I was amazed with how quick and efficient it was. I also walked to the pier 17 where I watched the water early in the day. I took a subway to get a bagel, and walked back through times square. From there I had a great work day, pretty chill. Stopped to get a Pastrami sandwich at mr broadway which was amazing. I got a train back, and we met at Glatt House for dinner (had pad thai just like the pad thai that I ordered for Shifra). I got some Yossi and Leibel books for the kids, read a book called what G-D can't do, reached out to my people at the Tigers, and bought my  early access for BP the next day. I then took a great bath and went to sleep.

The next morning I woke up early again. I walked through Times Square all the way up to Central Park, and rented a citi ebike to ride around the park. Was really great, little chilly but felt so great as always. I also got an incredible bagel on Amsterdam Avenue. I then biked back through the city to my office, which was so fun - there is an adrenaline about NYC. I got the day pass too. Shmuel Arye said he couldn't come to the game in the end, so I bought my own ticket. 

Work was fine, and I stepped out a little early. (didn't have a real lunch because I wanted to feel comfy spending money at the game, plus I already spent 90$ on pregame access and my awesome seat. I biked over the bridge until Queensboro Plaza, and got on a train to Citi Field. Right when I got there, they were letting our group in for BP. We were the only ones in the stadium besides employees and players. It was really fun to interact with the players and coaches. 2 bullpen guys threw me balls, so did a Mets player, and so did Riley Greene, totally 4. McGonigle tried to but couldn't make the throw on two tries.

I chatted with Riley Greene and also Valdez, asking him if he was starting tomorrow. I didn't catch any homers, I only had a real chance at one but someone got it over my glove which was a bummer. It was so cool watching the left fielders process at the new stadium, fielding balls off the wall, and catching line drive,s fly balls, grounders. It was also very cool to watch batting practice. I texted Dan Dickerson and he told me where to meet him, and the Citi Field employees let me go down once I showed them. It is so fun to have a relationship with the guy I listen to whenever I can, we spoke for a few minutes about the Tigers, Israel, and he even let me record him saying a message to the Israel Lions and Tigers group. I noticed Mcgonigle's family coming on to the field, so I tried to sneak in with them, but wasn't able to go too far. I met Mrs. Met, watched Flaherty warm up in the bullpen, watched the catcher drills. I got some food and went down confidently to 114 behind the mets dugout in the 7th row. Note to self: Unless the mets are sold out, pretty easy to go into sections holding food and not be asked where your ticket is. What an incredible place to watch a game. After a while I found Yosh and Abe and watched a few innings with them. Then I wanted to go to my seat, which was mid level directly behind home plate. I realized that Jason Benetti was right behind me, so I wrote on a sign Hi Jason - your friend from Israel, and at a commercial break I asked Andy Dirks to call Jason. Jason remembered exactly who I was and we chatted for a little and then took a pic. The game itself was very embarrassing, losing to the lowly mets 10-2, and playing poor defense, poor baserunning, and coaching moves that pissed me off. But I love baseball, and the Tigers, so it was a fun day. The pregame stuff was very cool. Next time, stand on stairs for mobility. Then I figured out how to get back to Aliza, she picked me up from the stop, and that was all for that day.

Wednesday was supposed to be my most important day in America. I had a big presentation of training I was supposed to do, and thank Gd it went really well. Team was pretty clown away. Also our rep at Apollo flew from Boston to meet us and show us the features - very well received. Also, Kristi and I picked up Mr. Broadway - the Pastrami Burger was so heavenly I am still thinking about it. To get to the game, I dropped my bag off at Kristi's hotel (I stayed downstairs and made her bring it up), and then we took the subway. She told me her mind blowing story which I had never heard of about Korean - Americans in her age group. 

We got to the game, missed the 2 run single Riley Greene hit, and those were the only two runs. We had 80$ to spend each from Justt - it was a really special evening and hanging out with the team. And it was my first ever walk off game I went to - just wished it wasn't against my team. But I also got to meet Danielle Bruce in the middle of a Bruce hunt, and on the broadcast you can see her waving back at me and recognizing I was there. We spoke for a couple, took a selfie. At some point I went to go get merch for kids, because one person on our team didn't come and Deb decided I should get the voucher to buy gifts for my kids. After that, for the last few innings, I went all the way down, and ended up sitting in the second row behind the dugout. Unfortunately we lost but it was very cool. I got an uber back from the hotel I picked my bag up (also had no cell or internet since my plan ended (30 day I purchased from London). I showered and went to sleep.

Thursday morning I woke up, davened, hung out with the girls, sat with Mo and Tif and then went to breakfast with Moshe, stopped at Aisle One for sprinkles, and went back to Aliza. I finally packed, took an uber to Newark, sat in the lounge for a big, and am now boarding the plane. Weird to be away for Yom Yerushalayim, but at least our plane city is Yerushalayim Shel Zahav which is cool.

May it be a great trip. Excited to home for a while, with no planned flights now.

 


Thursday, May 7, 2026

MURICA

 

Came back from our second ever family vacation away from Israel. It was very different than our Budapest trip, in terms of type, length, costs, etc, but special and fun in its own way. We went to get the kids American Citizenship, and turned it into a very special 2 week trip. It was actually supposed to be in March but we moved it back understanding that a war was coming, and were incredibly thankful that the ceasefire happened when it did. We didn’t even tell the kids until 3 days before for fear it might get cancelled. But thankfully, it worked out beautifully.

We had a wonderful Yom Haatzmaut, picking fruit with family and friends, and then going to Shai and Narkis for a BBQ. We then came home, put the kids to sleep too early, had dinner, put the kids back to sleep, and woke them up to go to the plane. My dad took the girls minus Rinat, and Zak took me, Eitan, and Rinat.

We got to the airport very excited, and quickly went through the business checkin straight to the lounge. The kids loved the lounge, and definitely do not understand how cool it is. But we ate, watched planes, and chilled. (The lounge had actually reopened the day before.)

We got on the plane, with me in between Meital and Eitan, and Rinat on Shiff and next to Hadar. The flight was fine, Meital fell asleep instantly for about 7 hours, Eitan watched some movies and fell asleep. I think I fell asleep for a few hours. Rinat was held by random strangers every now and then. We landed in Newark and watched a beautiful sunrise through NYC. Moshe and Aliza came to pick us up, and the kids instantly were excited and friendly.

The kids played a little with the Blumenthal girls in the park, and then we put them to sleep while Moshe and I went to get the car. It was a hassle because I came 2 hours after the reservation so apparently they gave my minivan away – meaning we had to drive 20 more min to get to an Enterprise that had a minivan. All good, got my first slurpee. Then we got back, and the kids were ready for fun!

We drove to American Dream, with Eli with us, to get lunch and do Paw Patrol. Lunch was a shocker for me in terms of the pizza cost 80 usd (one pie, one gluten free), and Hadar didn’t even like the gluten free one.

Then we went to Paw Patrol climbing area which was a great way to keep them energized and excited. It was a cool place within Nickolodeon theme park. The kids had a blast, they did paw patrol rescues, and it was very cool. I got told off that adults weren’t allowed to go down the slides, but still went down the biggest one after (had to).

From there, we went back to Aliza for dinner from Delancey with the Gantze Mishpacha and went to sleep.

The next morning, we woke up and drove to Paterson Falls. That was the first time Eitan needed to tuck his Tzitzit in which he didn’t like but understood. The falls were pretty unimpressive and not worth the trip to there. Hadar threw up in the car (which she is getting very good at staying calm, barfing in a bag, and moving on). We then drove to the Liberty Science Center, which had  a Daniel Tiger exhibit the kids were excited about. There was also a butterfly area, where the kids could pick up butterflies with special sticks and hopefully not step on them. There was also other cool things, like a water area, a climbing area, a planet area, and an animal area, but the best part for me was having lunch on the observation deck (we learned to pack sandwiches), and getting to see the beautiful skyline of NYC from pretty close, and even cooler – the statue of liberty (only my second time seeing). At the end, we asked a school bus driver if we could get on and he was all too happy to let us.  From there we drove to Teaneck, where we met the Newmarks and got ready for Shabbat. I had to make a Target run right before, and wanted to stop for a slurpee when I got gas but in NJ they fill your car for you – so I couldn’t even make the case that I was out of the car next to a 7-11. Oh well.

Friday night was a beautiful davening at BY. Arnie led davening and did Shaarei Shamayim for the end of Kabbalat Shabbat which was beautiful. Dinner was nice and then we went to sleep.

Shabbat day was great too. We went to the main minyan, the kids got a lot of candy. The rabbi spoke nicely about a bar mitzvah kid and talked about him and his interview of him. There was a kiddush for Ayelet’s Bat Mitzvah, which had delicious Kishka and kugel. Shabbat day was nice, spending time with family.  And then Dov and I went to hear Jen Airley speak, who is awe inspiring in all measures. Her view on things is incredible, what an energy and Ruach boost to hear her. Saturday night was chill, some Madden (I lost which was surprising). We also made the decision to split a boys and girls day the next day.

Sunday morning, we drove back to Clifton for our split day. The girls went to American Dream and bought necklaces and did some girls stuff. Would take boy day any day, but I am glad they had fun. Eitan and I got on a bus in the morning to NYC. We walked from Port Authority to Times Square. He was amazed by the screens and tall buildings, and loved seeing the theaters for Lion King and Aladdin. We even went into the M&Ms store which he loved to see. From there, we hopped onto a train to Citi Field, to watch the Rockies take on the Mets (there was a doubleheader but we decided to only stay for the first game). The Rockies head pitching coach Alon was my coach as a kid, so I was in touch with him before about doing something cool which I try to always do. He said there was no pregame access during a day game but to meet him in left field when the gates opened. We got to citi field 5 minutes before gates opened but there were very long lines. I used my Israeli chutzpa to go through the front of the line and ask security to cut the lines so we could meet my coach. Finally a security woman let us, and we got to be about the 10th people in the stadium. We shot like a bullet down to field level, and got to watch the Rockies warm up from 10 feet away. Eitan loved the size of the stadium and the seats, and he was holding his “1st baseball game” sign. One of the players saw and tossed him a ball which he caught bare handed. We then watched the rest of the warmups, and Alon came out. It was great to chat with him for a few minutes, and Eitan even got to throw with him for a couple minutes. Just some Israeli ballplayers. I loved that Alon’s mitt had an Israeli flag and was blue and white. Then we stayed to take a few pictures with players, got one to sign his sign, and walked up to the main concourse to take pictures with Mr. Met and do some of the activities. We got hot pretzels and hot dogs, found Moshe and the boys, and went to take our seats. It was not the most exciting game but I loved sitting with Eitan and explaining what was going on, and he loved it too. I got us great seats but unfortunately in the shade, sun would have been better, so he used my sweatshirt as a blanket. He loved the big apple going up when the Mets homered. I found it so cool to watch Alon go out to speak to the pitcher (Haden, who was the one that tossed Eitan the ball), and also so fun to watch Alon call signs. I even tried to figure out the signs for an inning but I couldn’t (should have tried earlier.) Moshe then drove us back to Aliza. All in all, an amazing day on this trip.

Monday was also a day we had been looking forward to – Moshe’s fire station. We drove to Rutherford and met him at the fire station. Moshe gave a very cool tour to the kids, explained things and answered their many questions. The kids got to climb on the fire trucks and learn what each thing was for. A policeman came also so they got to sit in a police car. Then all of a sudden, Moshe got a call, so we had to get off and let him go – that was very exciting for the kids to see. While he left, we walked over to the 7-11. Somehow Shifra was able to convince them to let us have Meital and Hadar split one and then get an extra cup, which was pretty impressive. Didn’t matter in the end, since they both didn’t like their slurpees but they did like their potato chips bags they got with it at least. Eitan loved his. We got back, and Moshe came back shortly after – call cancelled. The kids continued the tour. I got to dress up in Moshe’s full gear including oxygen tank. Then we all got to spray water on the street, and just be careful not to hit cars. It was really cool. We thanked Moshe and then went to the Van Haus zoo. The train wasn’t working but the merry go round did and so was the zoo. There was some cool animals there like mountain lions, vultures, and prairie dogs, and it was a nice way to spend an afternoon. From there we went back to Aliza, then to Moshe for dinner. Then it turned out that Yaakov and Devorah were driving back, so they took me out (technically Bubby and Zayde did) to Delancey – was so fun to see them.

The next day was the big one – citizenship day. The day Shifra feared for weeks. Driving from Passaic to Hartford to Cedarhurst to Philly, with two girls that had proven to throw up on 10 minute drives. We gave them Dramamine and prayed, and put the girls in the middle seats, with Eitan and Rinat in the back (Eitan was amazing with her this trip, feeding her, entertaining her, etc. We started driving, and it was pretty great. We listened to music, some kids (not Meital) fell asleep. We drove with beautiful greenery, played the license plate game, and got some time just to talk Shifra and I which was nice. We got to 15 min out of Hartford and stopped at the Dinosaur State Park. We asked to use the bathrooms, walked out looking at the actual dinosaur footprints, and had a beautiful picnic in beautiful weather outside. Shifra then gave Rinat her lunch while I took the kids for a nature walk. It was really cool to walk in the footsteps of dinosaurs. Then we continued to Hartford. We parked at some close by library and ran to the appointment. It took a long time, but we were approved. The kids all got American Flags, and they were very excited. Hope we made the right choice for them.

From there, we got back in the car for 3 hours to drive to Cedarhurts – which is only 1 hour out of the way total, and was a delicious BBQ dinner at the Friedmans. It was fun to watch Eitan and some boys connect over a ball, fun to watch Devorah F’s baby and ours who are 9 days apart play, fun to chat with my cousins, and fun to eat delicious food. Mamash. Then we got back(!) in the car for the 3 hour drive to Philly. We decided to stop at 7-11 on the way out of Cedarhurst, and Shifra asked for a diet coke (she moved to the back to help put Rinat to sleep). I came in the car, tried to fix the Bluetooth, looked back, and I was the only one awake. (if one person is awake, it should be the drive tbh). The diet coke that will never be drunk. I drove by myself to Philly the entire way after 6 hours of driving on the day. I love driving. First hour was pretty easy with music and slurpee. But then the Baruch Levine music wasn’t cutting it, and I had to switch to some Taylor Swift, Shaarie Shamayim, etc. songs that I could sing at the top of my lungs. As we pulled into downtown Philly, I was struck by how beautiful the city was at night. Mamash a light show. We got to Baruch and Noa’s home, and I woke Shifra up by saying are you ready for your diet coke? We woke up the kids, walked up the very creaky stairs all the way up, and everyone fell asleep.

The next morning we all woke up, and got to hang out with Baruch, Noa and their kids. Baruch and I went to shul and then came back. Then we set off to the Philly Zoo. It was a very cool zoo! But not Budapest level. Some cool and fun things to see like active monkeys and gorillas, big cat area, a Philadelphia eagle, some crazy otters (my fave), We spent a lot of time there, and didn’t end up needing to go to Philly museum. We then stopped at the supermarket in the Harlem/Bronx of Philly apparently, and then went back to Baruch and Noa to play. I picked up pizza, and Baruch and I set off for the Phillies Game which I was super excited about. Unfortunately, the rain didn’t stop, and after sitting in an hour of traffic, seeing the stadium, we got an email saying the game was postponed. That was a bummer, but I did enjoy the car chats both ways. Plus Shifra needed help with Meital. Once I put her to sleep, I went out with Baruch to a sports bar, and we watched the Flyers game along with Pistons. Fun atmosphere! And we just drank coke and brought in mini oreos, so it was completely free. Turned out to be a fun night even with the rainout.

Thursday we woke up and drove an hour to Crayola Experience. Highly recommended! Was so fun for kids, with the making your own crayons, climbing area, melting max to cool things, coloring pictures of yourself, the crayon factory explanation, waterworks, and much more. The kids LOVED it. It was very fun. I thought I lost my wallet for 15 minutes, but thankfully Shifra found it (apparently when I say main pocket its never the real main pocket). We got Crayons with names for grandparents and some cousins too! Then we drove back to Passaic. This actually was one of the funnest drives, because it turned into a Kumzitz/singalong that was really fun – even after the amount of time together, everyone was still into it and happy to be together. We went straight to Teddy’s which was very fun for everyone, and they even made Hadari special gluten free fries which is not on the menu. An incredible day.

Friday we woke up and decided to have a great day back at American Dream. We started at Legoland which was really fun to create legos and do things with them. Plus the laser room, the 4d movie where they got wet, the train, and the lego city were very cool. We also did a lego building workshop, and played in the lego climbing area. It was very cool. And the cool thing was there was a package with the next door aquarium that we got to see, which was one of the coolest aquariums I have every seen. You stand next to and under eels, sharks, rays, and lots of cool fish, it was very cool! And then there is a climbing area at the end. From there we decided to get them build-a-bear as a souvenir and Afikoman present. They got to choose great bears and clothes, got to fill it up with air, put the heart in, and do the whole procedure with the guys. From there, we went to Carvel with everyone, where I got a delicious Carvelanche – it was too hard to choose between the amazing toppings and ice cream, and so I got the carvelanche that let me put in like 9 toppings (reeses pieces, peanut butter cups, sprinkles, circle sprinkles, oreos, and more). From there Moshe and I went to return the car, and came back right for Shabbat. Shul and Friday night dinner were great. Then the next morning we had a bunch of fun! Shul was great, I like Rabbi G speeches, and the kids went to groups in the youth suite dedicated to the original candy man – their great great grandfather – they liked that a lot! Lunch was so fun with the stars and blums. Shabbat afternoon was fun with shabbat party, and I got to go to another Rabbi G shiur about why we daven at graves. The rest of shabbat was great. Saturday night we of course went back to Teddy’s, who threw in some garlic knots and an extra slice for me, and Shifra says her deep crust pizza was the best pizza slice she has ever eaten.

Sunday we woke up and decided to have more of a chill day. We played at the Blumenthals in the morning, in the park and at the “wedding” while mummy went to Target. (Eitan went back to the fire station to climb the ladder and even sit in the truck while it moved! and to Hatzala station to see the ambulance). Then we went to catch air, which is a climbing place that is so fun. Shifra and I went down the slide together, and everyone enjoyed very much. From there we went back to Blumenthals to watch a few minutes of the Pistons game before going to Delancey for dinner. Then I played a few MLB the Show games with Tan (won), and then packed and went to sleep.

Monday it was time to go home. We went to the airport, sat in the lounge, met Dovi N, and had a great flight home. I put Rinat in the overhead compartment which the flight attendants liked. BTW the flight attendants kept coming to ask if they can hold Rinat. We liked to see Metlife Stadium and Yankee Stadium, and all the different baseball/football fields. Was much harder since they didn’t really sleep as it was day time. We landed at 4 am, had the taxi driver take us back to Newmarks, and then we slept from 6-11 and forced ourselves to wake everyone. I took a sick day at work so I could slowly get back online and find out what I missed.

An amazing vacation. So thankful for the opportunity. And thankful all the hard work to get citizenship paid off.

Wednesday, May 6, 2026

a bloodthirsty war mongerer?

A real text from my woman: "Can the war start again and you not be able to fly"

So she so badly doesn't want me gone for 4 days she would prefer ballistic missiles fly at us from 2000 km away. Loce that lady. But that is wild

A Topsy Turvy Kinda Day

 As we still are waiting to enter our apartment in Ganei (24 months late), the question of what to do with the kids next year is on our mind...